You express power when you’re:
- mentally flexible
- enlightening the scene with your intelligent humor
- engaged in the dynamic whirl of life
- learning something new
- following a fascination
- satisfying your curiosity
- exploring your many sides
- acknowledging your need for rest, along with motion
- with stimulating friends or colleagues
You lose power when you’re:
- too tightly wound
- repeating things you know you shouldn’t
- putting negativity into the collective stream
- unable to sustain interest long enough to bring an idea to fruition
- giving in to cynicism
- not getting enough “Me” time to center yourself
- not allowing for silence to hear your own thoughts
So you want to take on the Twins? Stock up on Gatorade, prepare your best bon mots — indeed, fluent French is a plus, and I’m not referring to your tonguing technique. They say the brain is the most important erogenous zone, and Gemini wants you to work hers all night long. Seduction starts with an interesting conversation and a double entendre — of course, the elusive Gemini will rarely come out and say what she thinks. It’s too risky, and besides, does she have to paint you a picture? If so, you might as well start packing. If you don’t understand, she can’t explain it to you; and frankly she doesn’t have time to try.
If she ends up moving on, don’t beat yourself up. Gemini is known for being faithful to her whims alone. Often, they’re too smart for their own good — their quick minds make them impatient, so of course they miss out on a lot. If you want to impress her, bring up a gossip item you gleaned from the Huffington Post, rather than a 10,000 word piece you read in the New Yorker. Trade witticisms over coffee or cocktails to begin, then take her on dates that will stimulate her intellectual side. The opera or the art museum, or a scavenger hunt that draws the two of you on an urban adventure might be playful enough. In a relationship, surprise her with a trip to an exotic location, whether it’s Singapore, Trinidad or Texas — she’ll revel in the culture clash.
If you keep her distracted with plenty of shiny objects and you’re not the obsessive/possessive type, you could have a lasting love affair with a Gemini. But even if you’re committed, you’re in for a lifetime of playing things fast and loose.
You’ll never know when the Twins will come out of their shirt, so be on round-the-clock alert. The playful Gemini can’t resist you in a skirt — it’s simply too tempting for her devilish side. She’ll also like getting first taste when you least suspect it. And if the sex isn’t perfect, don’t worry, she’ll move on before too long.
What To Expect On A Lesbian Gemini Date:
- She might not show up. Maybe she’s just not that into you.
- She’ll show up a week late, and confess her undying love.
- A trip to the opera, and a quickie in your box.
- Party in the meatpacking district — she’ll charm your way in.
- Quips you’ll get a week later.
- Impossible positions — have you been doing your yoga?
- A sex toy store in her bottom dresser drawer.
If you’re the type to get tired of a lover’s personality after awhile, Gemini might be for you. The dual mentality of the Twins promises that there will never be a dull moment — so long as you’re ready to live with both Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.
With sly Gemini, you’ll never know exactly who you’re dealing with: the silver-tongued charmer who swept you off the dance floor with extravagant promises of trips to Ibiza, or the evil little urchin who made off with your stereo, your credit card, and your roommate while you were slumbering in post-coital bliss.
If you give Gemini a key to your apartment, he’ll be sure to have a copy cut within the hour. And if you give him the key to your heart, better keep a screwdriver handy so you can change the locks when he’s gone.
On the other hand, for more playful interludes, few can resist the brazen allure of mysterious Gemini, who you can count on to always keep you guessing. Definitely steer clear of the Twins if you’re the type to hire a detective to keep track of your boyfriend. Sherlock Holmes himself couldn’t keep up with the lightening-fast movements of the Zodiac’s most devious sign.
You masochists will have a hard time tearing yourselves away from Gemini’s biting wit and unpredictable mood swings. You can always tell when Gemini is going to get back with an ex, by the hour-long polemic they’ll deliver about never wanting to see that particular flame again.
How To Attract A Gay Gemini:
For the most part, Gemini is not very likely to be Mr. Right — but he can make a fabulous Mr. Right Now. You probably won’t be buying a house together, but you might spend that much on a trip to Aspen together. Cynics say that Gemini looks for a big bulge in the pants… not in the front so much as the back. Being able to finance the Twins impulsive antics will definitely get you closer to grabbing a Gemini eye.
Hard-to-get is Gemini’s favorite game. To win the weekly lottery with the Twin who’s caught your eye, you’ll have to play his way: be unattainable while staying available. The fatal mistake is being boring; you’re better off disappearing without a word than drumming up an awkward conversation. Strong and silent is a good way to go, if you can’t match the vibrant sarcasm and subtle mischief of your quicksilver paramour.
Flirt with everyone in the bar but him, and you’ll have Gemini eating right out of your hand.
Once you’ve hooked the short attention span of a Gemini, be prepared for a torrid obsession that will take over your life for a week or so until the candle burns out. Known to be innovative and expert lovers, learn all you can out of his bag of tricks before he packs it up for the next adventure.
Gay Gemini Quirks and Erogenous Zones:
When flirting with a Gemini, make any excuse to brush his hand or shoulder, or give his biceps an appraising squeeze. Once you’ve gained a little ground, a shoulder rub should be your top priority, and don’t forget to suck each finger lightly to get his imagination racing.
Gemini’s flighty attention will then be fixed squarely on you. Keep his hands busy and don’t be surprised if, whether on top or bottom, he prefers to face away from you… and toward any mirror in the room.
Role-reversal is a huge turn-on for Geminis, so you can expect him to be a flexible and athletic lover who despises routine. Keep it dynamic and always avoid falling into a groove; Gemini will drop you just to keep things interesting.
What To Expect On A Gay Gemini Date:
Stock up on party toys if it looks like a lucky night with a Gemini — the kinkier, the better. It’s a rare Gemini that isn’t into roleplay, novelty items and a little S&M. Be prepared for anything and let him know you’re not afraid to explore. Twins tend to go crazy for drag, so playing dress-up together can be a fabulous way to really bend the boundaries.
Leave a quiet night at home off the agenda — Geminis like unusual places and situations. Commandeer the spare bedroom at a ritzy party you weren’t invited to, or schedule a long ski lift ride where the two of you can share some alone time at 1,000 feet and not a soul can see what you’re doing.
In general, Geminis may appear to lack a certain warmth or sensitivity in social interactions. However, this trait is usually a facade and those who get to know these individuals better begin to appreciate them for their quick and quirky intellect.
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The Gemini-born are intellectually inclined, forever probing people and places in search of information. The more information a Gemini collects, the better. Sharing that information later on with those they love is also a lot of fun, for Geminis are supremely interested in developing their relationships.
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Wouldn’t it be difficult if you had to interact with someone who appeared to possess ever-shifting personalities? You’d find yourself striking gold with a joke one moment, and falling flat the second the other personality took the wheel. You would always have to anticipate ideas that contradict one another, statements that clash, and thoughts that stick out, distinguishing the two battling characters and the battle for the chance to speak as though they were two physical people, like quarreling siblings.
It would be difficult, and when one talks to a gemini, it often is very difficult. The problem is that the siblings that this gemini is host to rarely quarrel - at least, not where you can see them. Gemini is the voicebox for two opposing personalities, but each of them is valid; his personality is not the product of either twin, but rather, both twins.
Geminis will go so far as to ask you to sit in one breath and insist that you stand in the next, for any reason that crosses his mind. The twins are insistent, but their constant struggling makes it so that one twin is always behind the curtain. When he appears, the Gemini flicks into character, as if on queue, and true to the twin of the moment, will walk, talk, and act in a manner that will baffle any onlookers who haven’t yet made the acquaintance of both of the twins.
In fact, if you watch a gemini, keep an eye out and see if you can spot their changes. Gemini will be on the short end of a rant about their reluctance to spend money on a whim or why board games aren’t what they used to be (Gemini will talk about anything and everything that comes to mind). If you look closely, you’ll see Gemini staring into the distance, and then, as if brushed by an invisible wind, his face will change, and when he dives back into the conversation, there is absolutely no telling what THIS twin is going to have to say.
Well, I shouldn’t say that there is no telling what to expect from a gemini switch. Geminis are actually rather consistent in their inconsistency.
If you are intent on taming a gemini, it’s time that you start identifying their twins. Some geminis host twins who are reasonably similar, if fundamentally out of sync. Others appear to host quadruplets, which just as chaotic as you would assume. Some geminis are volunteered chaperones to two completely opposite personalities. No combination, no style of twins is more easy to understand than the other, nor is any combination more favorable. If you prefer someone who will not hold a grudge and who is easy going, the greater the difference between the twins, the better.
Indeed, some of us enjoy the acrobatics - particularly Gemini’s air brothers Libra and Aquarius. Because of Gemini’s multi-faceted personality, he is very quick. In fact, he will know about almost any subject or field or interest, so long as he has at least heard of it beforehand (quick as he may be, don’t expect him to shoot the breeze about surfing and water parks if he lives in Canada). He will rarely master any skill or vocation; rather than tying himself to the title of master or virtuoso, he will generally regard his interests with casual appreciation, leaving room to change his mind later.
Despite his quick mind, he’s certainly not a genius. Conversation can be clumsy for him, and if he gives the impression of a circus clown one minute and waxes the subtle charm of a Cowboy the next, it’s because he is both of those characters in equal measure.
He may have a reputation for being easy to read, commitment shy, and shallow, but with the amount of interests, projects, and friendships that he manages, he is smart enough to run your life, supervise your mother’s, and account for your entire fish tank’s upkeep. Granted, he will never be as put-together as those less flighty than she is - but you should know by now that this is what makes him unique.
Gemini will be your make-believe friend forever. Always flying through the confusion of switching identities, he is never so committed to normalcy and convention to stop him from bursting into song, doing a dance, or reciting Shakespeare. Gemini extends an open invitation to plunge into a makeshift circus act with whomsoever wants to join in.
The other zodiac signs hold the misconception that Gemini will always be somewhat behind. If you were working four jobs, an active member in several clubs, acting in a play, writing an album, learning Chinese, juggling romances, meeting new people, and handling the affairs of two invisible twins, you would come across as a little loopy, yourself.
Because of this, it’s hard to say that Geminis embody any personality trait consistently. Many are shy, but more are outgoing. Plenty are self-conscious, though just as many are EXTREMELY self-confident. Meet a gemini with two twins that are getting along, and you won’t even be able to count on the inconsistency, Gemini’s favorite flavor, that is the Gemini trademark. The most common traits of Gemini are his way with words, his shifty, calculating eyes, and a knack for making friends in every social group and caste that there is.
Agile and resilient, Gemini will only trip over one of his contradictions; Gemini is capable of love, but resistant to being tied down. Your gemini will treasure your companionship, but when you ask him to give up the life of shape-shifting and conversational acrobatics in order for the relationship that you and he share to develop, he will hear the twins whispering in his ears to run as far as he can and to never look back.
It’s not that Gemini is afraid of love. He is just unsure of his ability to settle and commit to another person, when he can’t even commit to either side of himself.
Of course, it’s possible for you and your Twins to share love (or friendship, for that matter) without Gemini committing to standing still and coming down to Earth. As Linda Goodman says, Geminis are like Peter Pan, searching for his shadow (like a twin searching for its counterpart). Gemini will never grow up, will teach you how to fly, and is likely to do the right thing with a heroically aloof sensibility.
If Geminis are Peter Pan, searching for his shadow, then they are searching for something rare indeed. Shadows are something common to all who walk in the light. Without a shadow, there is no form, there is no proof, and though the light hits us, we leave no impression on the earth that we exist.
To give him his shadow, you must be incredibly resilient; a Scorpio will lavish you with sentimental poetry and nothings sweeter than candy, and a Leo will treat you like royalty, but Gemini will expect you to lavish him, and to do so with something much simpler than excessive gestures. He needs his shadow, and when he flies away, mentally, emotionally, and physically, he will expect you to be waiting on the ground, marking his place and anchoring him.
It might seem like a thankless task; what do you get out of it? If you’ve ever loved a Gemini, I’d invite you to count his positive qualities. Is he not loyal? Does he not make you laugh, think, and glow with his words? Is he not adequately charming, intelligent, and innocent? Gemini’s splendid company might be reward enough.
Tell your Gemini that you’re on to him, that you know that he is holding two people in that head of his, and that from now on you’re keeping an eye on them. No idea is too bizarre for him, so he will accept what you’ve said, even if he doesn’t offer much of a response. Later, when the two of you are parting ways, and the subject of twins and their toils has long trailed off, Gemini will stop you at the door, and instead of saying goodnight, he will say, “My other twin just came back. He wants you to stay with us.” He will not always appear to be listening to you, but his mind catches everything, and even if your words fail to flick his twins into rotation, you will always be heard.
Gemini may not offer solid feedback at all times, but with him, you’re embarking on a new kind of love, where words are both important and irrelevant, where the decision between up and down is under constant consideration, where your Gemini can stretch his wings and come back to the ground where his prized shadow is waiting for his return.
We take our shadows for granted. Gemini will gain from his shadow a freedom that is truly liberating. He will be free to be his ever-changing self without worrying about others’ alienating and disconcerting misunderstanding. His shadow will give him clarity. You would think that his twins were just bored, confused, and understandably rowdy before Gemini began using your shadow. After walking with his shadow for long enough, the twins’ bickering appears to cease.
In fact, when the twins begin taking turns and listening to one another, it almost seems as though Gemini, proudly displaying his new shadow and engaged in the twinship and the duality of love, is now acting out the personality of one entity, where two stood before like tangled vines.
Remember, that there has always been one voice - his. His mind just needed two identical, yet opposite, twins to teach him how to handle himself. When he has learned to use both of his voices at once, and his quick mind finds harmony where conflict had taxed and drained it before, he will enter a new Twinship. You are his counterpart. Unlike his twins, you are free to speak at will, and your purpose is not to be heard over the other, but to speak in unison and to foster mutual respect and love.
When you consider that the payoff of shadowing this acrobatic intellectual is the devotion of a soul who, before you strolled along, could not devote himself to a favorite lunch meat, it’s easy to feel as though you’ve done a good deed, and quieted chaos.
He may shirk on the romance, and he might always maintain that gemini mobility, but if you stay with him in Neverland and indefinitely suspend the restrictions of time, age, reason, and gravity, you will learn that sometimes it’s okay to be swept off your feet and to never come back down again, so long as when you float off, your shadow stays behind in case you lose your way.
Gemini in a Nutshell.
Gemini people are many sided, quick both in the mind and physically. They are brimming with energy and vitality, they are clever with words. They are intelligent and very adaptable to every situation and every person. Gemini are curious and always want to know what’s going on in the world around them. They are not one to sit back and watch the world go by, they want to be involved. This can sometimes make Gemini nosy, they do not mind their own business! This is because they really enjoy communicating, more so then most other astrology signs, they are the ultimate social butterfly. Gemini can talk and talk, but they have interesting things to say, their talk is not mindless babble. They have interesting opinions and thoughts on things and are not afraid to speak their mind. They are always in the know and are the one to see for the latest juicy gossip. Lacking perseverance, Gemini easily goes off topic to explore another thought or idea. Gemini are superficial, they will form opinions on matter without diving into them and exploring them fully. This can lead them into thinking they know everything, which they usually do but their mind is too busy to be concerned with fine details. Routine and boredom are Gemini’s biggest fears. Gemini would rather be naive then know the depressing truth, they do not want anything putting a damper on their freedom or positive energy.
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A good looking woman with brains, a very interesting person. She has a fast movement and she could not sit still or stand still long. She is able to do many things at the same time and do it fast. If you date her, you will feel like dating many women at the same time. You can not tie her down with the word “Love” because she cares about love but is it not a major factor of her life.
You have to be able to adjust yourself to get along with her many different characters. She is a dreamer and has many dreams. She is eager to learn something new all the time. Even she is the 2 in 1 mixed character type, she is quite lucky in love. You have to put all your efforts to win her affection.
Even when she likes you and wonder about your wit, she will also see and inspect your bad side at the same time, because it is in her nature. She able to keep all kinds of mixed emotions without annoying you or letting you know at all. She can cheer you up by acting like a free little bird. Her conversation will not bore you. She is able to talk to you in any subjects. She can make you feel like you are the luckiest man alive.
She can make you feel like she needs all your care, but once she needs to stand alone, she can stand alone firmly and comfortably. She can be your best buddy and talk to you about anything. She can join all your activities with the same energy that you have. She is a quick a wit person and learn new things very fast. She can see your projects and she can give you good advice. If she thinks you are not sure that you want her for yourself, she will act like your best friend only, a cool woman.
She can easily make a guy fall in love with her. Her multiple changes and many moods is a “Charm” for many men. She can be laughing for 2 minutes and later suddenly quiet. She wants to find only 1 true love and she wants to meet her dream guy. She expects a lot and nearly too much. She is constantly waiting for her knight shinning armor even she is with a steady boyfriend. She can fall in love or fond of someone else while she is with you.
If you break up with her, she will forget you quite fast, because change is in her nature. The Gemini woman breaks more heart than woman in other Zodiac. Because she is a dreamer and always waiting for her knight shinning armor, so her love life can be complex or a mess. She hates to write a long letter, so if you write her a letter and expect a prompt reply, forget it.
Because she has a multiple personality and multiple ideas, so she hates to put them down in written proof. Because she knows what she belief today can be different tomorrow. She could communication with more than 1 language, a real gifted linguistic. If she wants to tell you any bad comments, she won’t say it straight away, but she will talk to you about many other things and accidentally come to that subject without offending you.
Normally she will not lie. She will work hard and once a while take a long rest. She can get bored and tired with her own surrounding more than at work. She never feels content with her present work, money, or reputations; she will drive to have more. Don’t ask her what is her ultimate contentment for she will not have an answer. Once you get to know her, she will be a supportive person and always be beside you. She has a beautiful dream and she loves to have someone walk side by side with her, together and equally.
Gemini woman is a social butterfly of grand proportions. She loves having everyone’s attention and she loves sidling up to important people and stuffing them into her vest pocket. She’s very good at this and people love having her around. She also enjoys flirting up a storm and she gets well annoyed when her boyfriend complains about such things — he should trust her and stop being a baby!
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Gemini woman is used to having a mind that’s superior to the man in her life. It’s not that she feels her partners have been idiots, it’s just that they can’t process thoughts and ideas as quickly and easily as she can. Over time, she convinced herself that this is just how it is and there’s no point in being unhappy about it.
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